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الخميس، 22 ديسمبر 2016

THE FRIENDSHIP TEST

الخميس، 22 ديسمبر 2016 - 0 Comments

THE FRIENDSHIP TEST

 one of the oldest pieces of relationship advice in the book is, “You and
your partner should be best friends.” Most people look at that piece of advice in the positive: I should spend time with my partner like I do my best friend; I should communicate openly with my partner like I do with my best friend; I should have fun with my partner like I do with my best friend.
But people should also look at it in the negative: Would you tolerate your partner’s negative behaviors in your best friend?
Amazingly, when we ask ourselves this question honestly, in most unhealthy andcodependent relationships, the answer is “no.”
I know a young woman who just got married. She was madly in love with her husband. And despite the fact that he had been “between jobs” for more than a year, showed no interest in planning the wedding, often ditched her to take surfing trips with his friends, and her friends and family raised not-so-subtle concerns about him, she happily married him anyway.
But once the emotional high of the wedding wore off, reality set in. A year into their marriage, he’s still “between jobs,” he trashes the house while she’s at work, gets angry if she doesn’t cook dinner for him, and any time she complains he tells her that she’s “spoiled” and “arrogant.” Oh, and he still ditches her to take surfing trips with his friends.
And she got into this situation because she ignored all three of the harsh truths above. She idealized love. Despite being slapped in the face by all of the red flags he raised while dating him, she believed that their love signaled relationship compatibility. It didn’t. When her friends and family raised concerns leading up to the wedding, she believed that their love would solve their problems eventually. It didn’t. And now that everything had fallen into a steaming shit heap, she approached her friends for advice on how she could sacrifice herself even more to make it work.
And the truth is, it won’t.
Why do we tolerate behavior in our romantic relationships that we would never ever, ever tolerate in our friendships?
Imagine if your best friend moved in with you, trashed your place, refused to get a job or pay rent, demanded you cook dinner for them, and got angry and yelled at you any time you complained. That friendship would be over faster than Paris Hilton’s acting career.
Or another situation: a man’s girlfriend who was so jealous that she demanded passwords to all of his accounts and insisted on accompanying him on his business trips to make sure he wasn’t tempted by other women. His life was practically under 24/7 surveillance and you could see it wearing on his self-esteem. His self-worth dropped to nothing. She didn’t trust him to do anything. So he quit trusting himself to do anything.
Yet he stays with her! Why? Because he’s in love!
Remember this: The only way you can fully enjoy the love in your life is to choose to make something else more important in your life than love.
You can fall in love with a wide variety of people throughout the course of your life. You can fall in love with people who are good for you and people who are bad for you. You can fall in love in healthy ways and unhealthy ways. You can fall in love when you’re young and when you’re old. Love is not unique. Love is not special. Love is not scarce.
But your self-respect is. So is your dignity. So is your ability to trust. There can potentially be many loves throughout your life, but once you lose your self-respect, your dignity or your ability to trust, they are very hard to get back.
Love is a wonderful experience. It’s one of the greatest experiences life has to offer. And it is something everyone should aspire to feel and enjoy.
But like any other experience, it can be healthy or unhealthy. Like any other experience, it cannot be allowed to define us, our identities or our life purpose. We cannot let it consume us. We cannot sacrifice our identities and self-worth to it. Because the moment we do that, we lose love and we lose ourselves.
Because you need more in life than love. Love is great. Love is necessary. Love is beautiful. But love is not enough.

  • الثلاثاء، 20 ديسمبر 2016

    The 10 Best Short Stories You’ve Never Read

    الثلاثاء، 20 ديسمبر 2016 - 0 Comments



    One thing that’s great about short stories is how quickly they can ruin your life. Maybe you start reading one over your lunch break and, if it’s the right one, before that peanut butter cup you brought for dessert even has a chance to finish its melting shape-shift into some kind of sugary cement, the whole world has been destroyed around you and then rebuilt, and nothing is quite the same again.
    This happens whether you like it or not. Great stories practice this violent beauty on you in a variety of ways: some by making an absurd world familiar (or vice versa), some with a slow burn, some with a voice that colonizes your thoughts. Some do it quietly, almost without you even noticing, and some do it with high wire acts of imagination or intellect that make you into a breathless witness.
    The trick, then, is finding the right story, one that is capable of such a thing. This is no easy task. Tastes differ, of course, and it can be confusing to spot the small boat of a great story on the wide sea of fiction. What any reader can offer you in terms of guidance is actually the same thing that any good writer can offer you with the story itself: a way of saying, This is what moved me and made me feel strange and alive in some way; here, why don’t you give it a try?
    In that spirit and in no particular order, here are ten short stories you might’ve missed that ambushed me with their odd wonder:
    1. “The Zero Meter Diving Team” by Jim Shepard (BOMB Magazine)
    This curious, masterful story is about a set of brothers who work as managing engineers overseeing the Chernobyl power station on April 26, 1986, but, as with most of Shepard’s work, it’s also about the invisible planets of loss that our personal lives orbit. It is both an education and an elegy. Shepard’s forthcoming novel of the Warsaw Ghetto, Aaron Only Thinks of Himself, promises more of the same.
    2. “A Tiny Feast” by Chris Adrian (The New Yorker)
    Titania and Oberon, the immortal Queen and King of the Fairies, live under a hill in a modern city park. To save their marriage, they adopt a mortal toddler and begin to raise him, only to discover he has developed terminal leukemia. What follows, set in a fairy den and an oncology ward, is one of the best (and, somehow, realest) short stories ever written, a haunting exploration of love and death that has followed this reader, at least, into marriage, parenthood, and nearly every subsequent day spent on this earth.
    3. “Lorry Raja” by Madhuri Vijay (Narrative Magazine)
    One of the newest voices on this list, Vijay tells the story of Indian children mining the ore used to construct Olympic stadiums in China with remarkable poise and vision. While the inherently political nature of the story is certainly important and the writing is ruthless in its detail, to approach “Lorry Raja” in only that way is to miss the quiet power of Vijay’s prose, as well as its ability to look honestly into the subtleties of family and the scales of desire without denying beauty where it lurks.
    4. “Bluebell Meadow” by Benedict Kiely (The New Yorker)
    Published in 1975 at the peak of The Troubles in Ireland, Kiely’s unlikely story of a small country park and the two young people who spend a few afternoons together in it is sly, funny, and tremendously affecting. A lesson simultaneously in understatement and heart, this story is really about the near misses of the lives we almost live, as well as what time does to the things that could’ve been. Long forgotten by most, author Colum McCann miraculously resurrected it for The New Yorker‘s fiction podcast, and it is best experienced in his wonderful voice.
    5. “Some Other, Better Otto” by Deborah Eisenberg (The Yale Review)
    It’s difficult to say exactly why this story—the reflections of intelligent, grumpy Otto about his aging partner William, his own aging, his uneasy relationship with his family, the sanity of his troubled sister, loneliness, and the new baby of his upstairs renter—is as wonderful as it very much is. The story is, in the end, a testament to the power of a whole person—caustic, funny, articulate, alone, lost and found, cruel and loving—given life on the page. Originally published in The Yale Review, eager readers can find it in The Best American Short Stories 2004 anthology.
    6. “City Lovers” by Nadine Gordimer (The New Yorker)
    Also published in 1975, sixteen years before she would be awarded the Nobel Prize, this is Gordimer’s story of the relationship between Austrian geologist Dr. Franz-Josef Von Leinsdorf and a mixed-race Johannesburg shop girl, an affair that is illegal in apartheid-era South Africa. One of the most overlooked pieces of Gordimer’s writing, this is also one of the quietest, and most effective. The uneasy dynamics of race, class, and power (especially when it comes to love and sex) are nimbly explored here, and build to a devastating end. It was similarly saved from obscurity, this time by author Tessa Hadley, for The New Yorker‘s fiction podcast.
    7. “Spring in Fialta” by Vladimir Nabokov
    “Spring in Fialta is cloudy and dull,” begins this amusing and heartbreaking story, perhaps the most underappreciated narrative Nabokov ever wrote. Waiting behind Nabokov’s admittedly long and wry sentences is the plainly moving story of a love affair pursued through the years. Every detail works together here to render Nabokov’s testament to the illusiveness of love and memory, and a reader’s patience is richly rewarded. Those interested can find it online, or in the excellent anthology of love stories, My Mistress’ Sparrow Is Dead.
    8. “Especially Heinous: 272 Views of Law & Order SVU” by Carmen Maria Machado (The American Reader)
    By turns funny, disturbing, canny, and inventive, this novella takes the form of fictional episode summaries of the famous show (but if the show, as one reader puts it, were directed by David Lynch). Machado, another new voice in American fiction, manages to create an engaging, strange, and wholly original story that draws into conversation sexual violence, popular culture, and our own weird-feeling relationships therein.
    9. “Inventing Wampanoag, 1672” by Ben Shattuck (FiveChapters)
    While this very short, very tricky story purports to be about the birth of the tribal language used to print the first Bible in the Americas, it is really about the death of it, and the way history itself is a colonizing narrative. Shattuck’s facility with prose makes this a funny, winning story, even as it is a bitter and sad one: a clever and unique creation that will stay with you long after you’re done reading.
    10. “Painted Ocean, Painted Ship” by Rebecca Makkai (Ploughshares)
    This humorous, deceptive story, loosely descended from Coleridge’s most famous poem, follows an unreliable English professor as a single compound error (mistaking a bird, then a student) births another and another, eventually threatening her potential marriage, job, and fate. The best part, however, is the turn at the very end, which reveals the entire story to perhaps have been something different all along, a sneakily stunning mediation on the limits of self-awareness, guilt, and penance. Originally published in Ploughshares, curious readers can find it in the pages of the Best American Short Stories 2010 anthology.

    السبت، 17 ديسمبر 2016

    5 Motivational and Inspiring short stories about life, stories that will make you smile.

    السبت، 17 ديسمبر 2016 - 0 Comments




    1. Everyone Has a Story in Life
    A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted…
    “Dad, look the trees are going behind!”
    Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed…
    “Dad, look the clouds are running with us!”
    The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…
    “Why don’t you take your son to a good doctor?”The old man smiled and said…“I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today.
    Every single person on the planet has a story. Don’t judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you.
    2. Shake off Your Problems
    A man’s favorite donkey falls into a deep precipice; He can’t pull it out no matter how hard he tries; He therefore decides to bury it alive.
    Soil is poured onto the donkey from above. The donkey feels the load, shakes it off, and steps on it; More soil is poured.
    It shakes it off and steps up; The more the load was poured, the higher it rose; By noon, the donkey was grazing in green pastures.
    After much shaking off (of problems) And stepping up (learning from them), One will graze in GREEN PASTURES.

    3. The Elephant Rope
    As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not.
    He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. “Well,” trainer said, “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.”
    The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.
    Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before?
    Failure is part of learning; we should never give up the struggle in life.
    4. Potatoes, Eggs, and Coffee Beans
    Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it. She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed.
    Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot, and ground coffee beans in the third pot.
    He then let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter. The daughter, moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing.
    After twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.
    He then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a cup. Turning to her he asked. “Daughter, what do you see?”
    “Potatoes, eggs, and coffee,” she hastily replied.
    “Look closer,” he said, “and touch the potatoes.” She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought a smile to her face.
    “Father, what does this mean?” she asked.
    He then explained that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans had each faced the same adversity– the boiling water.
    However, each one reacted differently.
    The potato went in strong, hard, and unrelenting, but in boiling water, it became soft and weak.
    The egg was fragile, with the thin outer shell protecting its liquid interior until it was put in the boiling water. Then the inside of the egg became hard.
    However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were exposed to the boiling water, they changed the water and created something new.
    “Which are you,” he asked his daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a potato, an egg, or a coffee bean? “
    Moral:In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is what happens within us.
    Which one are you?
    5. A Dish of Ice Cream
    In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10 year old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.
    “How much is an ice cream sundae?”
    “50 cents,” replied the waitress.
    The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and studied a number of coins in it.
    “How much is a dish of plain ice cream?” he inquired. Some people were now waiting for a table and the waitress was a bit impatient.
    “35 cents,” she said brusquely.
    The little boy again counted the coins. “I’ll have the plain ice cream,” he said.
    The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and departed.
    When the waitress came back, she began wiping down the table and then swallowed hard at what she saw.
    There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were 15 cents – her tip.

    A short story about true friendship


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    STORY

    Fiona Famous was a very popular girl at school. She was clever and fun, and got on well with everyone. It was no accident that Fiona was so popular. From an early age she had made an effort to be kind and friendly to everyone. She invited the whole class to her birthday party, and from time to time she would give presents to everybody. She was such a busy girl, with so many friends, that she hardly got a chance to spend time with individual friends. However, she felt very lucky; no other girl had so many friends at school and in the neighborhood.

    But everything changed on National Friendship Day. On that day, at school, everyone was having a great time, drawing, painting, giving gifts. That day in class everyone had to make three presents to give to their three best friends. Fiona enjoyed the task of choosing three from amongst all the dozens of her friends.
    However, when all the presents had been made and shared out among classmates, Fiona was the only one who had not received a present! She felt terrible, and spent hours crying. How could it be possible? So much effort to make so many friends, and in the end no one saw her as their best friend? Everyone came and tried to console her for a while. But each one only stayed for a short time before leaving.
    This was exactly what Fiona had done so many times to others.
    She realized that she was a good companion and acquaintance, but she had not been a true friend to anyone. She had tried not to argue with anyone, she had tried to pay attention to everyone, but now she had found out that that was not enough to create true friendship.
    When she got home that night , created quite a puddle with her tears, and Fiona asked her mother where she could find true friends.
    "Fiona, my dear," answered her mother, "you cannot buy friends with a smile or a few good words. If you really want true friends, you will have to give them real time and affection. For a true friend you must always be available, in good times and bad".
    "But I want to be everybody's friend! I need to share my time among everyone!", Fiona protested.
    "My dear, you're a lovely girl," said her mother, "but you can't be a close friend to everybody. There just isn't enough time to be available for everyone, so it's only possible to have a few true friends. The others will by playmates or acquaintances, but they won't be close friends".
    Hearing this, Fiona decided to change her ways so that she could finally have some true friends. That night, in bed, she thought about what she could do to get them.
    She thought about her mother
    . Her mother was always willing to help her, she put up with all of Fiona's dislikes and problems, she always forgave her, she loved her a great deal...
    That was what makes friends!
    And Fiona smiled from ear to ear, realizing that she already had the best friend anyone could ever want.

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    الأربعاء، 14 ديسمبر 2016

    the sad story that will make you cry

    الأربعاء، 14 ديسمبر 2016 - 0 Comments

    the sad story that will make you cry  

    i wish you love the story  english
    tat was left too late
    thare was two 16 years od boy and girl
    they both
    after time they had grew to become the best of friends
    the girl live on texas and the boy lived in england
    they always turn to each other for hepl
    and they would make each other feeel so much better
    both of them have trouble live.............but they always had each other
    one  night. they was talking online.
    GIRL : i think i should tell you something...
    BOY : Yes ?
    GIRL : I LoVe you
    BOY  :I  LoVe you to
    GIRL: no .. NOT THE WAY i Love you
    BOY : .................
    THe boy went offline and the girl cried and thought she had spoiled everthing but later that night the boy rang here mobile and she answered ................


    GIRL : Hello ?
    BOY : it's me
    GIRL : hey ....... listen i'm really sorry
    BOY : no don't be sorry ....... I Love you to .....
    Girl : R Really ... but? .... 'sighs ' we won't be able to see each OTher
    my parents   would never let me go at this this time .... i havve all my exam
    BOY: i Khnow Me Too ...
    Girl : we.... we could wait for more years ............and we could be togoether
    BOy  : ...... i can wait ...ugh.i've got to go now.... i loveyou
    GIRL : i love youu too
    They both hang up
    Gor the nex gew years they Had styayed together and three love grew.
    one day they were speaking online
    GIRL : i've finish all of my exam ... and i have enough money
    Boy : oh my god are you serious ?
    Girl : yes......WWhen we are meeting?
    they both planned the flight and A few days later ....the boy went to the aiport thee girl plane was due to arive and the breaking new game to the airpot TV
    the plane from texas to england has crash landing
    leaving thousands of dead the boy broke into tears
    The boy went home and got a knife tha night
    the was found dead on his bedroom when his parents found hs they also found a picture of a girl in his hand and a small
    note


    "Our Love is to late"
    the girl parents where clearing out her room ... they found her diary inside it they found a picture of the boy and a note underneath it
    """ i will see him ... even if it kills me """
    botth of them did see each other in the end heaven if you are in love someone you shoulkd goo see them now

    How to eliminate the boredom






    The old saying "Time is like a sword that did not go your checkers." This parable Hfeznah all by heart and Rddnah in most of our meetings and our events, but often forget when we feel bored. Many of us miss him the practical meaning of this parable enters into a spiral of boredom, frustration and discontent, feels that there is no meaning to his life and adopt some wrong behaviors That's because it does not know what to do and how to get out of the cycle of boredom, which experienced.

    All religions have urged the need to exploit the time and spend what is useful. So Eliminating feeling bored task due It is not a difficult or impossible, but easy to implement if a person was determined to fight the boredom, here sum up the most important five steps to get rid of the boredom that have proved successful when a lot of people:

    1. man must ask himself why bored? If the cause is a routine he has to break it either by adding some new things or do his work differently, for example, if the house arrangement disturbs the housewife and her feel bored, they need to change their order house mechanism and distributed to the paragraphs contained breaks read or paint or see where television.

    2.alaptaad on the social life of the reasons being bored, so human to merge with the other goes to meet his friends or visiting relatives.

    3.mmarsh sport even for a few minutes a day stimulates the secretion of hormones of human happiness and give more energy and vitality and reduce fatigue and depression.
    4.aly Rights to learn something new and reveals the lid on a lot of things that are not known to follow-up the development of software and hardware, or read a book or learning a new language.


     5.aly rights to reward the same time to the other so as not to feel bored, for example, if he felt no desire to work should be thinking about giving the same bonus or award if his work led to the fullest like watching a movie or visit his friends or other things you love . This self-reward stimulate human to do his job and expel him the scourge of boredom.

    How to change your life for the better


    Most people are dissatisfied with their lives, and in fact find that many of those who claim to satisfaction and happiness in their lives are in fact unhappy with the style and form of life in which they live, and all of them eager to change his life to become better than they are, but they are powerless to achieve it , how can we change our lives for the better, then? What are the ways and methods available to achieve this?

     First - on the rights of all to count all the negatives and bad habits in his life, and thus puts a positive solution for each contrast negative, and he has to try to – at least - and as much as possible to reduce and even attended these negatives minimum. Second - to take advantage of all the mistakes of the past and be careful not to repeat them, and avoid all causes. third - promote self-confidence, optimism and outlook of life and for the future. Fourth - Do not despair of starting from scratch again, as the Russian proverb says that not come much better late than never come. Fourth - the fear of new ways of doors in life, in application of Laah precious "and Asaua tracts in the" great truth of God. Sixth - it captures the no opportunity in sight. Seventh - self-education and hard work to develop. Eighth - positive fusion with the class producing and successful in the community, and to avoid engaging with the helpless and passive and losers. IX - respect for the time and exploited what is useful, and not thrown away airily and recklessness. X. - the need to develop goals must be pursued in life, and not to let life go without visions and milestones are clear and specific. A ten - to stop all the habits and traits and behaviors negative: such as smoking, lack of movement, and waste and extravagance, and mad shopping and buy luxury things do not unnecessary, and celibacy for no reason. Twelve: conquering shyness and courage and boldness, and do not hesitate or recklessness in making decisions, and the rejection of the culture of shame altogether, and the lack of conscientious and transcendence on any action. As God said, the Almighty, "God does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves" the great truth of God, Valtkn net and pure, honest 

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    الثلاثاء، 13 ديسمبر 2016

    HOW TO EARN MONEY WHILE SLEEPING WITH HITLEAP

    الثلاثاء، 13 ديسمبر 2016 - 0 Comments


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    قصة مؤثرة جدا


     كان أحد الأشخاص يسسير بسيارته إلن أن تعطلت السيارة في أحد الأنفاق التي تؤدي إلى المدينة ، فنزل هذا الرجل من السيارة ليصلح ما حل بسيارته من عطل في أحد عجلاتها ، وبعد أن وقف خلف السيارة ليقوم بإخراج العجلة الإضافية السليمة ، وفي تلك اللحظة ، مرت سيارة مسرعة فصدمته وارتطمت به من الخلف ، فسقط نتيجة لذلك على الأرض وقد أصيب بإصابات بالغة وخطيرة 


    حضر أحد العاملين في مراقبة الطرق وزميله وحملاه معهما في السيارة واتصلا بالمستشفى لاستقبال هذا الشاب الذي لا زال في مقتبل عمره، كان يبدو على مظهره أنه شاب متدين ، كان الشاب يهمهم ويتمتم أثناء نقله بالمستشفى ، إلا أن من حملاه لم يستطيعا تمييز ما كان يقول ، لكن بعدها ميزا أنه كان يتلو آيات من القرآن رغم إصاباته وتكسر عظامه ووضعه الذي كان يشرف على الموت بسببه

     استمر الشاب بقراءة القرآن ، فأحس من حمله برعشة تجري بين أضلعه وبجسده ، بقي الرجل يستمع إلى هذا الشاب إلى أن اختفى صوته ، نظر إليه وإذ به يراه رافعاً سبابته متشهداً ومفارقاً الحياة فقد انقطعت أنفاسه وتوقف قلبه عن الخفقان نظر الرجل إلى الشاب المتوفي طويلاً مجهشاً بالبكاء ، كان المنظر مؤثراً جداً ،

     وبعد أن وصلا إلى المستشفى وأخبرا كل من كان عن قصة الرجل ، فتأثر الجميع ومن الحادثة وذرفت دموعهم ، وبعد أن سمعوا قصته أصروا على عدم الذهاب إلى أن يعرفوا موعد جنازته ومكانها ليصلوا عليه اتصل أحد موظفي المستشفى بمنزل المتوف

    ى وأخبر أخاه بالخبر ، بين لهم أخوه بعد أن تلقى الصدمة عن أعماله التي قام بها في حياته من خير وإحسان ، فقد كان دائماً يتفقد المساكين والأرامل والأيتام ، ويزور جدته الوحيدة في القرية، كل القرية كانت تعرفه ، فقد كان يحضر لهم الطعام والشراب والملبس والكتب والأشرطة الدينية ، حتى حلوى الأطفال لم يكن ينساها ليدخل الفرحة إلى قلوبهم ، وكان يستفيد من طول طريق الذهاب إلى القرية بالاستماع للقرآن وحفظه كانت وفاة هذا الشاب واليوم الذي استقبل به أول أيام الآخرة ، عبرة وعظة لكثير غيره جعلوا من يوم وفاته يوماً يستقبلون به أول أيامالدنيا


    Love


    Love is that feeling that fills us positive feelings and a desire to remain with those we love, is the safety and honesty in the emotions, in our article a set of governance that have been spoken in love. Rule in love love that came at the wrong time All that results in the wrong. Loving man to speak show, and show the love of women in tears and kisses. Torment to love and not to torment you love, but suffering the most is to love without hope quarrel between lovers salt of life. If you complained a young man from the cruelty of a woman, know that his heart in her hands. Neglect kills love, forgetfulness bury him. Slow down in the selection of the beloved does not rush to give it up. Who likes to believe everything or do not believe anything. Out of sight from the heart of the eye. Who loved strongly, did not like at first sight. Love is not blind but infected far-sighted he is not aware of the error only when away. The more our love doubled our fear of abuse of love. Love deep well drink them all and watch out for your own. Remorse for those who knew the love and regret for those who did not recognize him. The only game involving two of the two and gain or Akhosra Amaa..alhab. Love is the most beautiful miscalculation between the two. Love every bit as easy to Cholha..omn difficult to crush. Love, not Nakl mind and we do not like. Love heart and mind .. hate .. Balatnin quorum of insanity. Haunted love: beautiful, beautiful love chasing you love for someone to beauty is not love, but when he died, despite its shortcomings .. This is love certainly. When we want to love does not come, we do not want when it comes. Generate the word love, but it does not die forever word. I do not love you because you are the source of my comfort, but I like my comfort because you are the source. Love no one but attaches between life and death kills. You do not know your heart even fail in love. Love the moon has two sides: Jealousy is the dark side. Love eliminates variety of aches because it's the greatest. To love: a coincidence .. continue this your will. Love is not a hallucination, but a lot of them. True love is the one who feels it is too late. Love makes the ordinary man a poet, and the poet crazy, crazy animal, animal poet Love is to overstate the value of you know, jealousy is that overstate the value of fidelity do not know the love is not only Kassala to look at another human being. Love and war Ndechlhma when we want, but when we can escape them. Three must not hide .. love, recognition, and truth. Unfair to love when half of that fire, humanitarian Love does not become reduced to ashes. Women are choosing the man who will be chosen. Love Kalmrkp, if you carry more than one drowned. Ambition, like love, both are not endure competition or postponement

    الاثنين، 12 ديسمبر 2016

    The words of the Hurting Heart

    الاثنين، 12 ديسمبر 2016 - 0 Comments

    Do not regret the love I experienced .. even if it has become the memory hurts .. van were flowers have dried up and lost Obeirha ... and did not keep them non-thorns (((do not forget that it gave you a beautiful fragrance Osaadk))) never breaks all bridges with the one you love ... probably willing T. predestination of days as another meeting brings past * and up what was lost .. (((if the old Gemayel was gone who knows perhaps waiting for the age of the most beautiful))) and if one day I decided to leave a lover not leave him wound .. (((it gave us the heart))) ==> never deserves us to cultivate the shares or leave him to his luck pain Chekaya .. "and if the two of you broke up days," do not you remember those you love is all sense and honest .. Do not talk to him, but all that is wonderful and noble ... "has given you a heart ... and I gave him life" and there is no more expensive than the heart and in the old man's life, and if I sat lonely days and trying to rally around the shadows of beautiful days I lived with the one you love ... Leave away all feelings of pain and the unfamiliarity dispersed between you tried to collect the books in your papers all the beautiful words that I have heard all of those who love and sincere words that I said to those who love and get your days in the beautiful collection of photos of the man who once dwelt heart his features and his eyes glitter sad smile and in a moment of clarity .. and loneliness in a tight moment .. and hope that the two of you Enlarge days ... and he grew up and that he had wilted and died .. "and if they ask you for days, man I loved it," do not say the secret between you and .. never attempt beautiful picture of this man who loved distortion .. Make you a secret hideaway for all its secrets and tales .. (((Love ethics before they have feelings))) "and if she wants predestination and met reunion days "do not start Balatab and spelling and disconcerting .. and try to remember the last moment in order to reach the love between you .. past with the present and not searching for things ago, because that is lost is lost ... and present the most important much of the past ... and the moment the most beautiful meeting much of the memories farewell Lonesome .. "and if Ajmta reunion Other times," He tried to avoid the mistakes of yesterday that have divided the two of you .. because the man has to be to benefit from his experiences .. and never try to liquidate the accounts or revenge from the man gave him your heart ((( because settle accounts work R_khasah emotional market transactions))) (((and revenge are not the characteristics lovers))) and it is wrong to display your feelings in the markets .. and be a knight without morals .. "and if it's not to be parting "do not leave to reconcile the Pope, but I went in it .." and if Aki_tv that all the doors were locked and that please no hope in it "and that I loved from the day his heart was closed keys **** and delivered in the basements oblivion !!! Here only tell you that your dignity is more important than even the wounded heart and his blood that covered the sky of this vast universe .. you will not benefit that calls for a loved one does not hear you .. wa n inhabit a house is no longer one knows it and can live on the memory of a man without cause hyper Vick .. in love do not overload those who Istraek ... and do not buy from sold you .. and not Thznalih


    how to build self confidence

    Strengthen the self-confidence that the person's sense of worth between himself around him behaving naturally without any concern of the other is the confidence in itself. Self-confidence is not born with the man they are acquired from the environment surrounding it. The self-confidence is the way of life of success and falling under the weight of a sense of negativity and hesitation and uncertainty of the possibilities is the beginning of failure. The fact that self-belief of human trust objectives, decisions and abilities and potential, any faith in itself How do you strengthen your self-confidence: There are many factors that affect the self-confidence is not the hand of man which can not be controlled, but there are a number of steps that you can take to increase your self-confidence, including: 1_ Think positively newly positive and happened to yourself. 2_ tried to participate the discussions and is interested in educating yourself, and the more I talked more easy for you to talk the next time taking into account the methods of fruitful dialogue. 3_ accept responsibility Bahmatk they make you feel, do not be afraid .. do nothing to fear fear disappears. 4_ help others to strengthen your self-confidence. 5 _zhor look good decent boosts your confidence, Valmzar is the first thing that is looked upon others do not neglect yourself Vthmlk. 6_ accept positive criticism, not all of Antkdk hate you, do not make the words of others adversely affect the Nvsik The rules vary from one person to another. 7_ sit in the front row at lectures and seminars, the person in the back rows could not sit to one noticed this reflects a lack of self-confidence. Batakazk sit in the front rows you can bypass those concerns and strengthen confidence in your own decision. 8_ exercise, that exercise eases the tension and have a significant impact on the promotion of self-confidence. To build self-confidence is the main key that helps you make your decisions, and make friends, and Tqoahalaqat, and to lead a successful life.


    How to grow your nails in 2day!

    How nail in two days that a permanent interest in beauty and appearance of women is complete beauty without paying attention to the cleanliness and elegance of her nails and there are better and the best way to nail building and strengthening two days later the first way: - 1_ olive oil 2_ rosewater 3. We put the fire Olive p oil to protect it a little bit and then wait until cool and we put it on our nails for 4 minutes and then we remove it and brush the tinge of rose water. The second way: _ to Tanfeza strong nails beautiful and healthy Mix teaspoon of egg yolk well and then add to it two spoons of honey and salt, then mix the mixture well. Rub your nails well and leave the mixture for half an hour and then rinse your fingers well with cold water and salt third way: _
    1_ tablespoon and a half of outstanding honey
     2_ 10 tablespoons rose water 3_ four tablespoons glycerin
     4_ half tablespoon apple cider vinegar national heats the honey on the backburner and Add rose water, glycerol, apple cider vinegar to honey after it cools. Put the mixture in a bottle sealed and Aturkehm refrigerator and Astkhaddmah on a daily basis that you notice the difference yourself fourth way: _ 1_ 3 points of lavender essential oils 2_ tablespoon of oil, and we are establishing Alovakado once a week. Way V: _ 1_ 3 tablespoons olive oil 2_ 3 tablespoons apple cider vinegar 3_ egg yolk and we Bdehnh on the nail NOTE: _ 1_ rub your nails garlic with water before growing every day 2_ When Watching Luna white on your nails what on you Aln put your cup water and lemon and rub Azafrcka of cotton every day 4 or 5 depending on your time. 3_ rub your nails with lemon and Apply a little Vaseline and let him ten minutes and then rinse 4_ Rub garlic clove Bozafrcka such as the radiator.

    5 Safe and Effective Ways to Lose Weight Fast

    Is considered overweight and obesity and fat accumulation of the problems that plague many, and because of its significant side effects, and what caused serious illnesses, and because of its negative effects on the psychological and personal, and what caused the problems and changes in physical became rid of excess weight and pursue the process behind reducing body fat and eliminate nightmare haunts many people, so many people seek ways and means that will help them to get rid of this problem. We will talk in this article about the most important tools that must be followed to get a perfect body does not suffer from obesity and fat accumulation. And means to get rid of excess weight then exercising, maintaining them, Vtharik all members of the body helps to burn fat and get rid of them very quickly, when the practice of exercise and adherence to daily checks to get rid of boady fat efficiently, practice of sport effect is stronger than the follow much diets ; movement is the most important factor. Then fast walking a day over large distances also contribute to ridding the body of accumulated fat process. Eating fruits and vegetables in abundance before meals, they contribute to a feeling of fullness in the process, not make you need to eat a large amount of it. Eat slowly, do not rush to chew, this contributes to the feeling of satiety. Drink large quantities of water during the day, especially on an empty stomach, and before eating meals, they contribute to the fat-burning process and the feeling of fullness and sufficiency in food. Do not watch TV or exercise any activity or preoccupied with the computer during the food, it makes you not feel that you address them in the quantities, and thus continue to eat more food. Your commitment meal breakfast early, it is one of the most important meals that protect you from the increase in weight, because the body is ready to burn large amounts of calories. Then stay away from foods containing high levels of carbohydrates, and replace it with alternative foods such as brown bread instead of white bread, toast or brown instead of white toast. Then completely avoid sleep after eating meals directly, it stimulates the accumulation of fat in your body process. Do not take meat containing fat has caused you a high increase in cholesterol and fat accumulation in the body, damage to heart health and cause clogging of the arteries. More than eating barbecue and chard either meat or vegetables, and walked away too much about the fries. Then complete rupture eat ready-made meals in restaurants, they contain high levels of fat, and the rise in cholesterol levels, and calories which is very high. Committed to good meals of breakfast, lunch and dinner every day times. Then take off for the use of the lift completely and replace the tray; it makes your body a lot of movement. Completely moved away from eating sweets containing high concentrations of sugars, they increase the weight dramatically try eating milk and milk substitutes and derivatives fat-free then stay away from sodas, they contain high proportions of calories. Stay away from salty food, they cause storing in body fluids. Green authorities always eat before eating meals. Completely moved away from eating foods late at night, so as not to hinder the process of digestion of food.

    Do you know what is life?


     Do you know what is life?

     Is a short experience people enjoy life, to meet the Day of Judgment, and to wait for the day of reckoning,

     but there Dvutat and the problems we are going through a lot and most marriages, money and children and how to raise them and love between the sexes and the marriage stage and courtship and other things

    first: How do we address our problems: to address the problems remained silent during the discussions that lead to exciting problems and try to address them calm 

    Second: How absorb the anger of the nervous person: absorb the anger is very easy, word good and wonderful and romantic end Thread peacefully Third:

     Stay calm: when the nervous breakdown he tried to sit in your room or anywhere on your own or Asamto in order to move away from the people or for the same problem Fourth: Dao base your life: no joy or grief lasts lasts but the word permanent right does not go away.


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